There is the term “third space” that’s been circulating around for awhile.

The definition describes home as the first place and work as the second.

And the third is a place where we find a loose community, or a kind of neutral territory – it could be a coffeeshop, or a library, or a church.

It’s a place where we might come and go as we please, to participate at any level we choose, or a place where we can simply observe.

It is not purpose driven, or too highly structured and it could be intimate or remote.

A third space might be a place to seek out inspiration.

But mostly it houses a feeling of connection and belonging.

Anyway, I kind of see this place, this blog, as a third space, for me.

And you, you are in this third space with me(if you choose).

And when I write, I open myself up in ways I wouldn’t in a workplace.

And in this forum, I try to be honest.

And yes, lately it has been pretty depressing. (Obviously, you don’t have to go there with me – skip it, please).

But these writings have helped pass the time, and helped with the healing.

This has just been a helpful spot where I’ve been working out my mental health.

And it’s been a space to vent.

It’s been the physical process that has allowed me to listen to my brain.

It’s been a creative space.

A place to try not to judge myself.

We writers always want to tackle something new. We want to advance the plot in some way.

But life doesn’t work that way, and the lessons I’ve learned have been re-learned many times over.

But the good thing is, that when I’m scrolling back through my blogs, and I think it’s all been the same old shit, I run across a stunning photograph of say, the Swiss Alps.

And then I remember that day, and my son’s smile after his first run down the mountain.

And I remember just how peaceful I felt. How I watched him grow smaller and smaller as he traversed away from me.

And in that moment, I saw his 5 year-old self magically overlaid on his adult body.

And, up high, with the sun’s bright reflection, and my tears, making me dizzy – it felt like time was inverted that way.

And I just needed to get it down on paper.

Yes, there were the good days – many, many good days.

Still, depression will tell you they don’t exist, that they never existed, but it is a lie.

The truth is that there have been many, many more great moments than bad ones.

So, I’m grateful for this space we inhabit – this spot where the lousy and the picturesque can co-exist.

Sharing it has been such an unexpected joy.